Stories

Amina’s story

“Australia is my home now, not Sudan.  Everything is normal here.  People don’t have guns pointing at you and your family.   I feel safe,”

Amina is a refugee from Sudan who escaped persecution to come to Australia with her husband and children.  After a very difficult decade for the family, in 2000 Amina’s husband explained to his family that they must escape from their country.  They could all see the violence was worsening.  Amina sighed and quietly told me: ‘you can’t live like that.’

“Our family needed to be safe and away from all the fighting.  We were locked in our home a lot of the time.   Villages, and even people, were being set on fire around us.    My husband travelled ahead of us to secure somewhere safe in neighbouring Egypt.  I was glad to get out.  I was scared of the violence, but I was also scared of what the future would hold for my family.”

Everyone settled in Egypt as best they could and seven months after fleeing the horrors of Darfur and claiming refugee status through the UNHCR the family were accepted as refugees by Australia for re-settlement.

“I didn’t know what to expect.  This country called Australia seemed so far away and we were leaving my mother, father, brother, and other family behind.  When we moved into our first rented place in Perth, we had nothing.  No furniture – nothing.   I couldn’t imagine how we were going to manage in this strange country as I spoke no English.  I persevered and gradually I began to feel better.   Australia was normal and safe.  There was nobody with a gun.”

She made an effort to become involved in new things and joined the language classes and other activities at the Edmund Rice Centre WA.

“It opened my eyes to how life could be. Everyone was so friendly.   No-one was judgmental and it didn’t matter what country you came from, or what your religion was everyone was treated equally. It was like a big family. I knew I had found my place.  I had a family again.  I belonged.

Amina was very motivated to learn and grew in confidence working in a variety of different jobs as well as alongside her husband in his business over many years. Recently she decided to seek another employment opportunity in aged care. She gathered all her study certificates, most of which are qualifications for working with the elderly, wrote a resume, was offered an interview and was ultimately successful, returning triumphantly to celebrate her new job with her friends and family.

Amina has seven children who are all doing well at school and university.   Her husband owns and manages a retail outlet and they have called Australia home for nearly 20 years. I thought back to how Amina described herself when she arrived in Australia as a frightened, lonely woman who knew no-one. Over the years she has studied to become a successful businesswoman with a close knit, loving family.

“Of course, I am much happier now.  We are settled and in our own home and we have become Australian citizens. I’m still tired with all the work, of course, but that’s ok most of the time.”

Naw Pi

Naw Pi and her family

“We are grateful for the opportunities this country has provided us and want to keep working to improve ourselves”.

As a young 13 year old Karen girl living in a small village in Burma, Naw Pi knew that when the Burmese soldiers came with their guns, she and her seven siblings had to run away as fast as they could, escaping to the dark safety of the jungle. Her parents had taught them how to do this from an early age. They knew they had to drop everything and scatter quickly in different directions, away from their family home, away from the soldiers with the guns.

One day her village was totally devastated and Naw Pi was forced to flee from her home, not knowing if her parents were alive or dead. Rebel soldiers led her to safety through the jungle to the Thai Burmese border region. Eventually she married a wonderful man and had four children, but they would spend 16 years waiting in a refugee camp before being accepted as refugees by Australia.

Naw Pi (or Beauty as she has chosen to be called in Australia) works at the Hyatt Regency in Perth and loves her job. Her four children are all working or studying and are thrilled to call Australia home.

Kachuol Piok

Kachuol Piok with his cousin Rachel

“Life was horrible. You just waited for your day to die, because surely your turn must come. There were people dying around me everywhere all the time, every day”

Kachuol Piok, or Piok as his friends in Australia call him, is a man with a gentle soul, who hides the scars of his childhood and the challenges of his life as a refugee for more than thirteen years behind a welcoming, warm smile.

His journey took him from a peaceful, simple childhood as a Dinka boy in South Sudan caring for his family’s cattle and goats, to fleeing for his life during the 1983 civil war in South Sudan.

As if these struggles weren’t bad enough Piok got caught up in another aspect of the civil war that was hard to comprehend – he became a child soldier, taken away by the army to an isolated jungle camp with 200 other boys for three years training.

After he escaped he spent many years in different African refugee camps, before being accepted as refugee for re-settlement in Australia through the UNHCR. From simple manual labouring jobs Piok pursued his education with a hunger, thrilled by the joy of learning. He completed TAFE courses, a bridging course for university and after an undergraduate degree went on to complete his Masters degree at Murdoch University with a thesis entitled “Becoming a Refugee is Not a Choice”.

Farid and Fauzia Sufizada

Rosemary with Farid and Fauzia Sufizada

Afghanistan is our past. We have a refugee story as well as a history and culture that remains important to us, but we are working hard to build a better future in Australia. This is our home now.”

Farid and Fauzia fled from the Taliban in Afghanistan because they were in fear for their lives. Ultimately their story is one of love and resilience. Their circumstances meant that they were separated for seven years in different countries despite both being recognised as refugees by the UNHCR.

Farid came by boat as a refugee, seeking asylum. He was locked in detention before being placed on a temporary protection visa, meaning he could not leave the country or be re-united with his family for five years. Fauzia was stranded in Pakistan with their children, forced into near seclusion by her father-in-law to ensure her safety.

Farid is one of the few refugees who was settled in Australia after being rescued from a sinking wooden boat by the Norwegian freighter Tampa in 2001.

Theirs is a distressing story, but one with a happy ending here in Australia. Since 2009, the couple have lived in Perth with their four children. They work in their own painting and catering businesses and are respected members of their local community.

Recently they visited some of their family who are still living in Afghanistan and were saddened and worried by what they saw in a country still gripped by war and conflict. Farid said:

Akec Mukur Chuot

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“When you are a refugee you spend a lot of time waiting and hoping for a better future. Your choices have been taken away from you.”

Akec’s early childhood memories are of a refugee camp called Kakuma – a Swahili word meaning “nowhere”. Her family were forced to flee from southern Sudan because of fierce fighting in the civil wars. It was not safe for them to stay. She spent the first 12 years of her life in Kakuma, before being accepted into Australia.

Akec – or Susan, to most of her friends in Australia – is now one of Western Australia’s most exciting female AFL players. She is an outstanding role model for young Australians, especially those in the African community.

Paul Kyaw

Paul Kyaw Making his Speech

Paul was born in a poor, rural village in Burma. Through hard work, family support and a scholarship he was the first child in his large family to complete his schooling and go to university where he graduated with a BA in history and pharmacy.

He was always a driven person – wanting to right injustices. He became a key leader in the democracy movement that swept Burma in the 1980s. Following the now infamous 1988 uprising he was forced to flee his country in fear of his life. Paul is from the Karen community – one of the many ethnic minority groups that that has long been persecuted in Burma. He fled to Thailand with his wife and small child where he lived for eight years as a stateless person.

In November 1994, Paul and his family were accepted as refugees by Australia. He is now a proud Australian who works helping other refugees and migrants arriving in the country. His story is one of personal struggle, resilience and survival.